Camping With PolyParadise
We are a group of Polyamorists seeking to live our
dreams, and this camp is one manifestation of that.
Polyamory involves openness to multiple loving
relationships, with honesty among all partners.
We all come to BM and PolyParadise
from our own communities and our own households.
Each with a different set of rules or understandings
/ agreements between the different people and groups
of people who accompanied us to BM.
Burning Man is a society where customs are quite
different than the default world. But this does not
mean that it is a 'free for all'. The personal
limits of others can easily be pushed or
disregarded.
Please do not make any assumptions that because a
person of either gender is naked that they want
'Touch', in our camp as well as your ventures on the
Playa. As Poly's we 'Process' in our own
ways...Touching without asking or without having
prior permission to do so is unacceptable in
PolyParadise.
Please Read -
PolyParadise Celebrates 26 years in BRC!
The Human Carcass Wash
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If you have never been a participant in the
HCW, you are in for a treat, both participating &
helping run it.
The HCW breaks gender barriers for being touched, it
of course by its nature of being washed means it
also 'Requires' people to be naked and to be washed.
People who would not otherwise be naked, or want to
be photographed doing such an activity.
With the HCW we have a VERY important role to play
as PP campers. I highly encourage everyone to get
involved in this fun activity. The HCW area is a 'No
Camera Zone'. There are signs that are highly visible
as well as the LARGE YELLOW sign donated by Stagger.
When dealing with someone who is taking pictures
politely ask them to respect our 'No Camera'
Request. If they become belligerent, please do not
provoke them. People are going to be people. We need
to be vigilant about providing a safe No Camera Zone
area for our Playa Guests, but using violence or the
threat of violence will get us now where.
Another essential part of the smooth running of the
HCW is that those running the activity must make
sure that all participants 'Must' be asked their
boundaries for being touched prior to being the one
washed. We must make sure that all other
participants have heard that stated boundary, or the
question is asked again at the next station.
If a HCW participant breaks this stated boundary,
that person should be pulled aside and dealt with in
a civil manner and tone. If you feel you cannot
defuse the situation yourself bring this issue to
the attention of Touch aka Greg or Scotto...
For Those That Choose To Be Naked -
If you have a 'Bare Bottom' I ask you to have a
towel or some covering for the chair you will plop
your bare bottom on....THANK YOU!!!!!!!
For those that choose to be Nude (Male & Female) -
Your Bottom MUST BE COVERED while cooking or when in
the food serving line.
Leave No Trace -
There will be clearly marked areas
for Burnable, Recyclable and Wet 'Community
Trash'. Please use them!!!
Coolers & Ice on the Playa -
There will be a section in the Kitchen area where
Community Coolers will be stored. If you put a
cooler in this area and it is not for 'Public'
consumption please label as such. All coolers in
this Community area will be drained, repacked and
iced each day starting Monday. The drained cooler
water will be captured & used for dishwashing.
When
you pack for your trip to BRC - your cooler should
be ICED – When you are at the last stop on Rt. 80
(From the West (Sparks) – From the East (Fernley)
before making the turn on HYW 447 heading towards
Gerlach – YOUR COOLER SHOULD BE ICED!! When you
arrive @ Burning Man your cooler should have ICE
maybe somewhat melted but it should HAVE ICE!!
As a Village of 300 persons we are required to have
a Health Permit by the Nevada Health Dept. The
Health Dept will visit our camp and make sure that
we are adhering to all prescribed food preparation –
serving – cleanup requirements. The Health
Dept will inspect all coolers and make sure that the
contents of said cooler are at proper temperature.
Obviously, coolers that have NO ICE or LIMITED ICE
cannot possibly be at proper temperature. The
contents of any cooler not cooled to proper
temperature were DISCARDED!
WE HIGHLY ENCOURAGE
– NO WE REQUIRE that you ICE DOWN YOUR COOLERS as
you start your trip to the Playa and KEEP ICE LEVEL
IN COOLERS AS REQUIRED during your trip.
This will ensure that when you cook your meal that
NO ONE EATING YOUR FOOD WILL GET SICK! We will
also be more proactive and do an ICE RUN on Sunday
(Day 1) that any camper can use to make sure that
when you arrive On-Playa that your cooler can be
RE-ICED and your food can be kept to temperature and
KEPT SAFE FOR
EATING!!
ULTIMATELY KEEPING
YOUR COOLER ICED – YOUR FOOD SAFE ON THE WAY TO BRC
IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.
Kitchen & Community Meals -
The Kitchen and all its contents (Except marked
coolers) will be available for all PP campers to use
and consume. Please be respectful in cleaning up
after yourself after using the Kitchen. Wash any and
all utensils, pots, spills in a reasonable amount of
time after you have prepared any food. Within 6
hours is an acceptable time frame...
There will be a Dish Washing & Rinsing Station
available...Please use it!!!
If you have volunteered to host a Community Meal or
will be providing side dishes, Breakfast & Lunch
should be at appropriate times consistent with that
meal. Please plan your
cooking & preparation time accordingly. Please be
respectful of the Poly High Tea or other discussions
while in the Kitchen/Community area while preparing
your meal.
There will be Pots & Pans, Stoves, Utensils,
Propane, Spices and just about everything else you
need to make an awesome Playa Meal.
Camp Layout -
When you arrive on the Playa make sure to see Scotto
for proper placement within our space 'BEFORE' you
unpack anything. Failure to do so may have you
moving stuff you believe is already in its place.
As things will inevitably change On-Playa...Our
scattered arrival times creates a LARGE puzzle to
piece together as the week progresses within our own
camp. The size of your allotted space within the
camp will always be adjusted to maximize for the
greater good.
"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the
few...or the One"
No matter how much room we may have It is VERY
important how you place your Guide wires, Stakes,
Ropes or what have you. Do NOT make it an obstacle
course to navigate for yourself or others traversing
through the camp. ALL rebar must be 'Caned' or
covered with a Tennis Ball or Plastic Bottle to
prevent injuries...Guide wires must be marked for
night visibility.
Camp Guests -
You will be responsible for any and all actions of
ANY guest that you bring into our Camp.